I never think about why we should marry before, because this is a significant affair I knew from little and was asked to obey in my life. We are supposed to adapt the society by following the rules and sacrifice part of freedom. The so-called regulation is not always reasonable, but efficient. In order to establish good order in society, government must deal with the basic needs for human's nature. For example, one's sexual desire is necessary for human reproduction which will ensure we have enough labor force to work and develop. However, if we do not control this natural desire, social problems, such as excess population, orphans, chaotic relationship will appear. Therefore, in order to make better and peaceful life, the society decides to limit people's desire by doing some silly arrangements. Once we set up rules of marriage, the basic structure "Family"is created. In this small group, children can be took care by their parents and parent have responsibility to satisfy children's need of education and surviving. This small unit divides society into small part that everyone can be cared and controlled.
If we do not have the regulation for human's behaviors, the society may not be formed, and the whole environment cannot be developed. Therefore, after thinking about this rule controlled human, I start to understand the meaning of weigh up the pros and cons. Sometimes, it is more worth to give up than obtain.
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